Forget about him, and start working on yourself.
And when he did open up to you "all he talked about was his ex girlfriends" well how considerate of him. NOT Honey, this guy doesn't have a clue how to treat a woman. If I were to go out on a date with a guy and all he talked about was his exes, that would be the first and LAST date with him.Then to complain that "the sex wasn't good" on top of that. Who the heck does this guy think he is? Do yourself a HUGE favor and dump this arrogant jerk before you get hurt any further. GOOD LUCK
I just wanted to check in with you, inked -- did you end up breaking up?