Get Out for yourself

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2003
Get Out for yourself
Fri, 03-28-2003 - 8:21am
If you have a job, you have a car, you have somewhere to stay for a while or can aford to get into a place get out...please get out....if your at the board then you down deep know that is what you should do...Please please don't stay...don't be like me and look ahead at your golden years as a death trip...I hate my husband so much...He is so much smarter then me and out talks me in everything...when I was younger people came to me for help...God I can't even leave the house he has be littled me so much...I eat all day just hoping to die from it...My heart is bad but I won't tell anyone...hoping to die from it...

Please...please...get out

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2003
Thu, 04-10-2003 - 1:48pm
Your mesage ALARMED me!How can you give such advice without taking it YOURSELF!You were put on this earth for a purpose.That purpose was NOT to live how you have,(I don't know other than what you stated in your message),and most certainly NOT TO SIT AROUND WAITING TO DIE!I am in the process of leaving a toxic relationship.I have a beautiful DD,(I lost her twin sister in my 31st wk of PG).I also had a mis/c last NOV/02,and I am 8wks PG right now.I was sitting around feeling sorry for myself,until I read your message.If anything,your message made me feel EMPOWERED to be leaving.But at the same time,I am VERY,VERY CONCERNED FOR YOU!There are people around you who can benefit from your wisdom!I don't know how old you are,but you are NEVER too old to help someone.Seniors homes are in need of visitors,who would love your company,whether to talk or read a book to them.Childrens hospitals welcome volunteers to read to children who are bedridden.You have been bestowed many gifts by GOD,and to sit in fear and a heavy heart means that you are wasting those gifts!PLEASE,I urge you to look outside of your situation,and around you for people who are in need of your loving heart and helping hand!You are a child of GOD who is worthy of LOVE,ADMIRATION,AFFECTION,AND MUCH,MUCH MORE.The world is waiting for you,get out there and show everyone the talents you have been hiding.

My thoughts and prayers are with you,Chasey.

Edited 4/10/2003 9:38:25 PM ET by chancec2

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-10-2003
Thu, 04-10-2003 - 5:52pm
Hi, just a note to let you know, there are people out here who do care and who would love to give you a hug in person, if it was possible. You may want to take a look at our Crisis board , the ladies there are some of the best you will find on the Web, and they have "been there" and can offer comfort, support and friendship. Please come visit!

CM Zanna

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CM Zanna Farlow
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