Girlfriend has become very distant, Should I stay or should I go?
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|Thu, 02-16-2012 - 3:20pm|
I've been dating a girl now for 6 months. For the first few months everything was perfect, but for the past two months things haven't been good. I've only seen her once in the past two months as she's staying away and keeps making excuses to why she can't come.(Saying she's busy, she's got too much to worry about, wants to be in her own company) Also, she hardly talks to me any more and when I text her being nice, she just ends up biting my head off. Also, she didn't come see me either on our first Valentines nor got me a card or anything. But I think it's because she's hiding something, but I may be wrong.
Another thing is that she has a 2 year old son with a previous partner. He doesn't still know about me and her, and he still has a key to her house, and stays over the night when he looks after his Son when; he could easily get a bus back home. And because she doesn't want him to find out, she doesn't let me round either. And I feel like a secret because of that, and her parents still not knowing who I am.
I've tried talking to her about the situation, but she just brushes it off. And when I don't but text her being nice and stuff, she just ends up biting my head off.
I'm falling in love with her and I'm lost as what to do. If I break up with her, it'll break my heart to do it, but then I don't think I can carry on like this. I'm in two minds, and don't know what to do. What do you suggest?