it's almost 6 years,,he won't propose
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|Sun, 06-29-2003 - 4:43pm|
when i started going out with my boyfriend he told me that if we were together for two years we would get married. two years past and he said that since i was still in college we should wait. then a few months before we've been together 5 years we moved in together and he told me that on out fifth year we would get engaged.
Well nothing happened. So this last chrismas we had a serious conversation on how i Want to get married and that if he doesn't then we need to rethink our relationship. Then he told me "OK by June, I promise". It is now the last day of June and nothing. I've told him that i will move back tomy parents if we are not engaged. (which we aren't)
This is the second time that he has not done what he said he would. His excuse is that I want and expensive ring and he doesn't have money to get it. But that is a bunch of b.s. All i am asking is for a decent ring ~2,000. plus he's had years to save if he really wanted to marry me. He could also ask his dad to lend him the money, just like he did to get his sports car.
My best friend told me that i shoud get a hint when it's been thrown in my face twice.
Tommorrow is June 3oth. I want to go through with moving out, but i am afraid becuase we have been together for so long. I dont' want to make a mistake, but i don't want him to think that I will be there forever and give him everything without getting something back.
please help, give me any advice. thanks