love lost forever?

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Registered: 09-28-2006
love lost forever?
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Sat, 01-28-2012 - 8:05am

i live in florida.

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Registered: 09-28-2006
Sat, 01-28-2012 - 8:10am

she responded with this:

I just saw your email.
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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sat, 01-28-2012 - 10:02am

I would put this woman in the unavailable category and you asked the question?? Stay or go..

GO and dont look back.. Find someone who will give you what you want and need.. This woman has problems and drama. You dont need that.

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Registered: 09-17-2005
Sat, 01-28-2012 - 5:40pm
I'm not really sure what you're looking for in terms of advice. Are you asking what you should do now? You posted in the "Should I Stay or Go" board but you're not in a relationship so there is nothing to stay with or leave.

All I can say is that I don't think it would be wise to get involved with her. On one hand she says she's in a exclusive relationship but she tells you she wants to "see where it leads" with you? Did she break it off with the other guy? Because if not, she shouldn't be "seeing where it leads" with you. Remember, this is the woman who wanted to have an affair with you while she was married. Now she seems to be open to seeing where things go with you while exclusively dating someone else. Does that really sound like the start of a healthy relationship?
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Registered: 09-28-2006
Sun, 01-29-2012 - 8:39am

well, it didn't end there.

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Registered: 01-03-2004
Sun, 01-29-2012 - 11:15am

She wrote "...as for now and where I am in life... I don't know where things will go.

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sun, 01-29-2012 - 12:39pm

First of all, you haven't been

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Registered: 09-17-2005
Sun, 01-29-2012 - 1:03pm
I'm really confused as to why you're posting here. Each post you make, you add more to the story when I thought you'd caught it up to date. And you end the post on a "cliffhanger" - "but things were soon to change......." - does that mean there's more to the story? Why don't you just tell us everything at once? Are you actually looking for advice? Because you seem to have ignored what anyone has said and just carried on with your story. Let me know when the story is finally over and whether you're even looking for any advice. For now, I maintain that it's not wise to get involved with a woman who has twice proven that she's willing to have an affair or cheat on someone she's dating exclusively.
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Registered: 09-28-2006
Sun, 01-29-2012 - 9:38pm

i apologize for not being completely forthright.

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Registered: 09-28-2006
Sun, 01-29-2012 - 11:25pm

i truly appreciate all of your feedback.

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Mon, 01-30-2012 - 7:48am

In the next day or two? You mean there's MORE?

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