Not attracted to my husband anymore
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|Sun, 02-19-2012 - 11:17pm|
Hi everyone, I"ve never posted here before but I thought I'd give it a shot. I've been married 4 years, with my husband or almost 10, but over the last 3 years I have found myself less and less physically attracted to him. Now I feel there is no physical/sexual attraction left at all. We do not have children. Aside from this issue, our marriage is mostly good. We get along well, share countless interests, are very in sync with each other, etc. However, I have always been the breadwinner in our relationship; I used to think it was just taking him a little longer than expected to get himself into a career...now I'm beginning to think he's sort of a n'er do well, professionally speaking. Could my not being attracted to him have anything to do with this? For reference, he is still completely attracted to me and does not fully know, thank goodness, how I feel about this. How can I carry on in a marriage where I do not even want him to touch me? This really isn't an issue of "mismatched libidos," either, as my libido is perfectly fine. It's just that my husband doesn't interest it. Any advice? Thanks for listening.