should i just move on

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Registered: 03-01-2012
should i just move on
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Fri, 03-02-2012 - 2:33pm
Me and my boyfriend has been togethor for 3yrs yesterday I broke it off. He has become really distant towards me because he says I'm too negative which I can be a lot of times. Which has cause him to start talking to other people on the phone now. He rarely calls me anymore we communicate a lot by text and we are a long distance relationship. The being distant started in Nov. And I really haven't been able to handle it. That's the only way I believe a long distant relationship will work. I leave I come back over and over cause of I how I fill towards him. He always ask Me to not leave to trust him that he loves me. But I dk anymore. I told him no more text to call me sometime this week and that I am only giving him a week so we can talk about maybe getting back togethor. Should or or should I move on.
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 3:54pm
The distance that started in Nov. probably means he has started talking to or seeing someone else. I think it's time to move on.
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Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 4:35pm

Rabbigat, before you consider whether or not you should try and get back together, you have to address his concerns.

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Fri, 03-02-2012 - 5:52pm

It can be really trying to be around negativity.

chaika

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Fri, 03-02-2012 - 6:07pm
I'm negative just towards him cause of the way things are between us. I have tried everything to make him happy. I have tried being more positive but it's hard cause I fill there is no point with him.
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Registered: 03-01-2012
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 6:20pm
He has gotten closer with a coworker of his. He says he sees her as a sister. Cause him and his sister were never close. But he's close with her a distant towards me.
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 6:23pm
Then there's your answer.
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Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 7:34pm

>>I'm negative just towards him cause of the way things are between us. I have tried everything to make him happy. I have tried being more positive but it's hard cause I fill there is no point with him. <<

So the answer is simple:

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sat, 03-03-2012 - 12:34am

If you broke up with him yesterday, then it's time to move on!