So Frusterated...What Should I do?

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Registered: 12-31-1969
So Frusterated...What Should I do?
Fri, 08-03-2012 - 12:09am

I am so irritated right now.  This is the 2nd time this week that the guy i've been seeing makes plans with me and then I don't hear from him.  Tuesday he was the one that made plans with me and then text him at 11pm to tell him how crappy it made me feel and that if something comes up that I know he is a human and just to tell me.  I have had this talk of being upfront about everything and having the communication be a 2 way road and its like he gets it but I am not the type of girl that gets blown off by a guy.  I am like going out of my mind to find out what the heck I did.  I text him earlier today that I wanted to have a nice evening with him and he called me and wanted to go out for drinks but I couldn't since I had my daughter at the house with me and it was getting later and then he went on and on about how my house is so far away. Then I offered to have him come out and just sleep over and he said he would call me back when he got home.  Here we are at 10pm MST and no call or text. He is suppose to help me move this weekend and its like I just want to tell him to forget about it.  I normally stop seeing someone that doesnt pay enough attention to me but I really freaking like this guy.... I just do not know what to do and I don't want to be the girl that texts him mean things.  Help!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 08-03-2012 - 4:38pm

Well I would just drop someone who had no respect for my time.  And didn't he know how far away you live?  If he thinks you live too far away, then why doesn't he end it and find someone who lives closer instead of making plans w/ you & canceling out?

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Registered: 07-04-2006
Sat, 08-04-2012 - 2:21pm
Why text??? Can't you two actually speak to one another??? I'll never understand these relationships that rely on texting as the #1 form of communication...if you want to know something why can't you just call him & ask him?
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Registered: 06-07-2004
Wed, 08-15-2012 - 12:59pm
His actions say "im not that into you", even though his mouth has not said it yet. I would listen to his actions.