stay or move on

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Registered: 03-01-2012
stay or move on
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 2:31pm
Me and my boyfriend has been togethor for 3yrs yesterday I broke it off. He has become really distant towards me because he says I'm too negative which I can be a lot of times. Which has cause him to start talking to other people on the phone now. He rarely calls me anymore we communicate a lot by text and we are a long distance relationship. The being distant started in Nov. And I really haven't been able to handle it. That's the only way I believe a long distant relationship will work. I leave I come back over and over cause of I how I fill towards him. He always ask Me to not leave to trust him that he loves me. But I dk anymore. I told him no more text to call me sometime this week and that I am only giving him a week so we can talk about maybe getting back togethor. Should or or should I move on.
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Registered: 12-27-2004
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 2:44pm

Move on.

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 3:02pm

Long distance doesn;t work for everyone, Some relationship don't work out because of it. If you are not happy, definitely end it and move on.

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Registered: 09-17-2005
Sat, 03-03-2012 - 6:58am
A long distance relationship needs more than text messages to stay alive. The only way it works is if both partners feel as though they are still a part of each others lives and he is not making an effort to do so. Move on.
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Registered: 10-26-2010
Mon, 03-05-2012 - 7:31am
I agree move on. If he truly wanted to make it work, he would open up and share instead of distancing. Try and find someone closer to you, good luck!