What is the status of his relationship with his wife? She left him you mentioned, but are they getting divoriced, separated, etc ? He may indeed like you, but he *IS* married. Regardless of how much you like each other he is still legally bound to someone. Why has he not divorced his wife? How do you know for certain that he isn't still with her and cheating with you (although, that is what he is doing ultimately).
I think you have to be very careful in this relationship. Even if he has good intentions, once (if) he divorices his wife there is a good chance that he will mourn that relationship and become distant with you. We obviously don't know the whole story, but from what you've written he sounds like he's somewhat needy. His wife left him and then he gets into a relationship with you. Is it possible that he hasn't divoriced yet because he doesn't want to?
I'm not trying to be harsh. I don't know the details, but from your post I think you need to be very cautious with this guy.
lovemykidlets is right; this is the worst time in someone's life to begin a relationship and there is a small chance that it will work out, which depends on why he has not divorced his wife and where he stands emotionally. But if you want to proceed at all, you have to be able to take this really slowly and be able to let go if it starts to take a negative turn. It's not a relationship you should be prepared to make a big investment in.
Why don't you just ask him if he is still married or not? If you are going to have any sort of relationship with him, you should be able to ask him this.
What is the status of his relationship with his wife? She left him you mentioned, but are they getting divoriced, separated, etc ? He may indeed like you, but he *IS* married. Regardless of how much you like each other he is still legally bound to someone. Why has he not divorced his wife? How do you know for certain that he isn't still with her and cheating with you (although, that is what he is doing ultimately).
I think you have to be very careful in this relationship. Even if he has good intentions, once (if) he divorices his wife there is a good chance that he will mourn that relationship and become distant with you. We obviously don't know the whole story, but from what you've written he sounds like he's somewhat needy. His wife left him and then he gets into a relationship with you. Is it possible that he hasn't divoriced yet because he doesn't want to?
I'm not trying to be harsh. I don't know the details, but from your post I think you need to be very cautious with this guy.
Welcome to the board sloan05,
I don't think there is anything wrong with asking about the status of his marriage.
Welcome to the board,
Why don't you just ask him if he is still married or not? If you are going to have any sort of relationship with him, you should be able to ask him this.
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