10 years of marriage and ready to give up :(

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Registered: 07-31-2007
10 years of marriage and ready to give up :(
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Thu, 07-14-2011 - 4:45am

I'm 31 and will be married 10 years next month. We've been through so much already that I am constantly debating on whether I want another 10 years like this. On most days the answer is no. We've been through counselling before and came out with nothing. We're just too different! We've lost respect for each other and I am on a never ending roller coaster ride of anger and frustration. We fight all the time, mostly in front of the kids. I just get so angry and I'm so fed up and tired. I don't know if I like him anymore. I just would feel rotten to leave him because I can't work it out. Plus I have 3 kids to think about.

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Thu, 07-14-2011 - 6:23am

Hi Miriamsmom, welcome to the board.

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Fri, 07-15-2011 - 1:10am

Why are you dissappointed in yourself because HE isn't taking care of business?