12 years after the affair help me please

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Registered: 08-20-2007
12 years after the affair help me please
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Mon, 08-20-2007 - 5:24am
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Edited 8/21/2007 11:43 am ET by belle112007
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 08-20-2007 - 8:54am

Split up. You are being carried by the emotions you felt for these years without him, but these feelings are probably not genuine... You are most likely feeling vulnerable and having great sex releases hormones in a woman that makes her physically want to stay with that man.

You're obviously very conflicted about how you feel and it's causing you some emotional torment.

Are you truly able to trust him again? If not then please do yourself a favor and let him go, as hard as it is. If you think there is a possibility that he truly has changed and is remorseful, and if you REALLY want to be with him, then take it very slowly. But the fact that you would leave him if someone else came along says a lot - that he is probably just good for emotional and physical comfort right now. Either way you should see this situation for what it really is.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 08-20-2007 - 12:21pm

Welcome to the board belle112007,


Do you have 3 kids with him?