14 years now he needs a break?
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14 years now he needs a break?
| Fri, 09-12-2008 - 12:48am |
I am feeling so lost, I had posted to another site, but posted here to for more insight. after 14 years & two continuous great weeks of

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I am not playing games, I don't have a key. He expects me to finish packing my things thursay night, and put into storage, these are his terms.
I went back and reread your previous post about not answering his calls. That is what I meant by playing games. I meant you should have just picked up the phone and told him, "I want to set a date to get ALL of my things" and left it at that. I retract what I said, though. It's not game-playing, but prolonging what needs to happen: No Contact.
So, why don't you do just that. Tell him you want to pack your things--EVERYTHING--and be gone. If he insists on keeping some of the decor, say no. Tell him you paid for them and want to take them with you. Don't say anything about "If you want to date other people, I want my decor." Just say you appreciate him offering to buy them, but you really like them and they aren't for sale. Take a friend or something as a buffer. Just get your stuff and get out. He sounds like a pretty big jerk.
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Hon, I have sympathy for you and your situation ... truly, I do ... as expressed in my first post.
Thanks once again, its nice to hear from someone that can stand back & see things in a different light. This is one of the reasons I am trying very hard to tell his point of view, or what he has said, done or tells me.
I have not call him,
Oh honey, now he's really starting to play you for a fool.
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You are right.
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