14 years now he needs a break?
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14 years now he needs a break?
| Fri, 09-12-2008 - 12:48am |
I am feeling so lost, I had posted to another site, but posted here to for more insight. after 14 years & two continuous great weeks of

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Hi helpsos, How are things going with u? How are you feeling? Unfortunately he called me yesterday about a bill he was having trouble with
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Did it ever occur to you that maybe your ex doesn't want to be coddled like he is your child instead of an equal? He's 21 and it sounds like he had absolutely no responsibility or accountability in your relationship at all. While it's noble and really sweet of you to do all those things for him, it's really not healthy to take on the responsibilities (especially monetary ones) of a 21 year old. He doesn't want another guardian, and from your previous posts about how angry you are about his time he spends with friends, it sounds like you were acting as just that. By saying "he threw all that away...to be free with his friends," just proves you are trying to MAKE him mature. It doesn't work that way. I've told you this several times in my responses, but never seen you acknowledge it: HE'S TWENTY ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You're faulting him for things he isn't even at fault for. Seriously, chalk it up to his naivete at 21 years old. That doesn't mean you should get back together with him any time soon. Wait until he grows up. You're trying to force him to do something he isn't ready (nor should he be) to do at all.
Well here is update, tonight was the night, that I was to finish packing the rest of my things. Kitchen
In addition to this:
Guys, let's remember to not hijack another iVillager's post.
Well, I needed to come after 4 pm, he was running late so
I know you are hurt, but I think something is wrong with this picture:
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