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21 and needing help
| Wed, 03-18-2009 - 10:47pm |
My ex recently broke up with me after a four year relationship...we live together and have a son who just turned one. she recently started talking to one of her guy friends who

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YOu got it - stop doing the things that upset her.
Welcome to the board thejaz26,
The things you do in anger (slam doors, etc) scares her.
She developed feelings for this guy because she felt that you were not paying attention to her and perhaps she felt deprived. It's nice that you're caring for her now. Just give her what you can and what she allows. Be kind, attentive, and respectful. As you are living under the same roof, you are not exactly broken up. There's plenty of chance to see each other and for you to show by actions, not words how you feel. She may well come around and realize that she has gotten involved in a fantasy and this is where her family is. Or she may not. All you can do is your best, to show her through actions, that you are not the same person you were before. Stay centered and focused and then of course all you can do is allow things to take their course.
Best wishes,
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