4yrs down the drain, he still lives w/me

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Registered: 09-06-2007
4yrs down the drain, he still lives w/me
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Wed, 07-30-2008 - 5:10pm

I m so overwhelemd and depressed to a point where I feel like I cant go on . I dont even know how Im even going to work I cry myself to sleep every night and all I can think about is why we cant try again to make things work I LOVe him soooo much.My boyfriend of 4yrs broke up w/ me on Sunday.We have had these fights where it'll come to a point of him saying he doesnt wnat to be together ,most of the time I go along with it...but he never leaves and we end up making up and trying to work things out.


Well this time it hasnt gotten better. Worst off he actually told me he doesnt love me anyomre that he has love for me but is not in love

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 07-30-2008 - 5:43pm

Welcome to the board rootslady77,


Why would you want to stay with someone that tells you that they have more hate for you than love? You deserve better than that.


Since he can't move out right now because I money issues, I suggest that you do it. The longer you continue to live together the harder this is going to be on you.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 07-30-2008 - 7:04pm

Welcome to the board rootslady77,


Whose place is it?