5 months pregnant and he's having an EA
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5 months pregnant and he's having an EA
| Sun, 03-18-2007 - 9:22pm |
A couple weeks ago I got on our computer and my fiance had accidentally left his email open. I was getting ready to close it when I saw picture messages sent from a cell phone. I opened them and they were pictures of a woman. Clearly I was not happy so I decided to go through his emails and I found emails that they had written back and forth to one another. These emails started back in November. I checked the internet history and he had gone to her myspace that day also. I confronted him about it and he got really angry with me and he threatened to leave. After he calmed down he told me that he felt really bad and he would never speak to her again. I told him that I would be willing to stay as long as he was ok with me checking his email whenever I wanted. When I got the phone bill I saw that they talked on the phone too...and their cell phones and they text messaged each other a lot. The thing that makes me really angry is that this MARRIED woman knows about our daughter and that I am almost 5 months pregnant. I was really looking forward to getting married. Why doesn't she care that she is ruining our family and would I be wrong to leave? I forgot to say that I can tell that he has been deleteing things from the computer. Thank you for reading this!


Hi bmille32 and welcome to the board.
:: I confronted him about it and he got really angry with me and he threatened to leave. After he calmed down he told me that he felt really bad and he would never speak to her again.
Is he true to his word?
::The thing that makes me really angry is that this MARRIED woman knows about our daughter and that I am almost 5 months pregnant. Why doesn't she care that she is ruining our family and would I be wrong to leave?
She's not in a relationship with you and your anger in my opinion is better spent on your guy.
'Why doesn't she care that she is ruining our family'
I agree that she should think about his family and what she is doing but does she even know? Do you know what he is telling her about his life?
I think you are better off getting angry at your husband and figuring out if you two want to stay and work on the relationship or not.
'and would I be wrong to leave?'
Not if he continues an affair and doesn't want to work on your relationship.