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7 year marriage
| Fri, 09-03-2004 - 11:42pm |
Im just wondering if anyone out there has any advise on showing more confidence with/ to my husband. when it is just us everything is fine, But when we are apart I really doubt who I am fo him. He spends alot of time at camp and out with people and Ive always stayed home with the kids - that is changing. The thing is I see the women in that he is partiing with and hear what the "guys" talk about and it makes me feel insecure. He says I should not worry about it and I justcant help but get this feeling. I havent been able to do what most girls do at my age (Imarried young) he is 7 yrs older than me.Becuase Im too busy taking care of th e house or kids and my job. I dont have tim e to workout( I used to all the time) And then I make time for him when he is home. I jus tfeel very bad about myself I wish I didnt feel like he was comparing me.........
Is it just me?
Is it just me?
Some advise please.........
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I think you need to talk to your husband. You are not irrational. You deserve respect. You deserve to be noticed. You deserve to have fun, too. All I know is that without communication, things fall apart. Not that my marriage is perfect, but both my husband and I try, because we care about the other's feelings. It is a work in progress.