7 years in, news:abortion w/ ex
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7 years in, news:abortion w/ ex
| Mon, 03-19-2007 - 7:17am |
My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years with a 6 years old daughter. Finally got married this past September. Just found out that he and his ex-girlfriend had an abortion. He admitted this to me only because I confronted him: because I figured out the password to an email account I didn't even know he had, which was from when I found out he had a MySpace account recently (which he's had for 3 years), which someone called him out on when they made a comment on his webpage. To make a long story short, I found emails starting from last July to his ex-girlfriend. He always denied being in touch with her. He gets extremely upset when there's any mention of my ex-boyfriend! When confronted, he said he wanted to talk to her about the abortion because he was thinking about the baby and felt sad. My question is, why is he turning to her for comfort when I am his present and future? If she had problems with the abortion, she didn't turn to him support. I tell him, the past in in the past. No he will never forget about the abortion, but I should be the one helping him deal with it. I don't know how to sort my feelings. This is much more complicated, but I just wanted to focus on one problem at a time. Thanks for reading. I'd appreciate any and all feedback.

Hi mom_livestrong and welcome to the board.
I'm not sure where to start.