Abusive Lesbian Relationship

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2007
Abusive Lesbian Relationship
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Wed, 10-17-2007 - 11:51am

I've been in an abusive relationship for almost two years.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 12:10pm

Welcome to the board iheartnyc,


You need to get out of this relationship now. You can't fix her. Don't make up any more excuses for her. My DH was sexually abused by a cousin as a child and also severely

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Registered: 11-29-2006
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 1:12pm

Hi, iheartnyc, and huge (((HUGS)))! I'm so sorry that you're going through this with your girlfriend, especially while you're out of the country and unable to deal with things face to face. At the same time, your being away could provide you with just the opportunity you need to get some help for yourself so that you no longer have to endure her abuse. This board is a fabulous place to seek advice and support, but I think you should also seek some help in real life. Two years is a long time to suffer at her hands, and I think it's important for you to take steps to protect yourself. Here are some great resources that can help you in your current situation:


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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2007
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 3:28pm

Thank you so much for the kind words, resources and comforting.

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Registered: 11-29-2006
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 3:40pm
((((HUGS)))) and we're here for you any time you need a shoulder to lean on. As

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