addicted to sex?

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Registered: 10-04-2004
addicted to sex?
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 6:58pm
This a long story, but to make it as short as possible I will say: I think my fiance is addicted to sex. I need real advice about this, because this could determine our entire future.

A little background: he has a box full of pornography, which didn't really bother me because guys save things like that, but he sits at his computer all day and I know that he goes to numorous sex/porn sites EVERYDAY! I went to the gym for less then an hour today and there were four different sites on his computer that were directly related to porn. We make love almost once a day, so there are no excuses there. I really don't know what to do about this. It makes feel horrible about myself and I think he really has a problem, someone help, please.

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Registered: 02-14-2004
In reply to: immks
Tue, 10-05-2004 - 1:29am
GIRL, I FEEL YOU ON THIS ONE. MY MAN WATCHES PORN, TOO- AND WE COULD HAVE JUST HAD SEX 2 HOURS EARLIER. WELL, I'M KINDA EXAGGERATING. HE MOSTLY WATCHES PORN WHEN HE'S a. DRUNK, and/or b. wants to jerk off (well, he jerks off to it, anyway). I wonder whether or not I am pleasing him in bed, also. But I think that with guys watching porn, it has nothing to do with us. Did you also know that guys fantasize about women (other than you) when having sex with you? I didn't know this until my guy told me the other day. I read that it is perfectly normal. Well, I don't really have much to say on this topic, sorry.