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| Wed, 12-19-2007 - 12:55am |
I dont know if you remember but over the Summer i Posted a msg looking for advice regarding my BF,his mediocre job, and my relationship with my mother.. At the time, myself and mother werent talking, because she thought he wasnt good enough for me.. Its now end of December, and things are worse.. Myself and mother STILL

Welcome back to the board elayno,
If you feel that you are done with your bf than why don't you just end the relationship? At this point, it doesn't seem to be making you happy.
Have you made any attempt to reconnect with your mother.
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I am adding links to your other posts.
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlrelationsh/?msg=28721.1
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlrelationsh/?msg=28803.1
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlrelationsh/?msg=29107.1
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Have you considered that your mother might be right, and she doesn't want to be hurt by the fact that you made a poor choice in a boyfriend?
It's hard to be supportive of people we love when they make bad decisions and then CONTINUE to propagate that bad decision. Your mom raised you for a long time and now she's seeing you pour all of your efforts into a dead-end man. That's got to be a huge slap to the face. All parents want their kids to make the best of their lives.
Just break up with him. A great side effect of not having him to weigh you down anymore is that you may be able to salvage your relationship with your mom.