advice me please

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Registered: 01-03-2008
advice me please
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Thu, 01-03-2008 - 7:10pm

I have been with my boyfriend for one year, I am very jealous but so is he and is not a big problem for us.


Thing is the other day watching tv there was an acctress and i started asking him what he tough about her, he didn´t say at the begunning but after i asked and insisted him for quite a while he told me she is the most beautiful woman for him.


I am feeling really jealous and bad about it, and the more because for my work i see celebities quite often so for me they are not like distant people you will never meet.


He told me that having girlfriend does not make him blind. And after having a fight he says now he only told me that to make me shut up and stop questioning him. I don´t believe it.


Thing is a see other men, not many the truth be said, but there are some that when they are really madly in love with a woman she is the only one for them and themost and only beautiful.
For example my brother who used to think that Pam Anderson was the best and after meeting his girlfriend he sais she´s nothing compare to his girlfriend.


Thing is is there something i can do to be the only one for him and to mke him not like any other women? Don´t mind palying mind games or whatever takes.


Thanks.


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Registered: 12-11-2006
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 7:19pm

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 7:49pm

"is there something i can do to be the only one for him and to mke him not like any other women?"

Well you have two options here:
1) Accept that your irrational jealousy is a problem and that you intentionally drove a wedge between you by badgering him about another woman and that you NEED to change, or
2) Murder all of the other women in the world.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 10:29pm

Your manipulative mind game put him into a No-Win situation.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 01-04-2008 - 12:48am

Gosh, I am just astonished at your behavior and your seeming belief that the physical appearance of strangers has any relevance to your life.


First, you goad your BF into admitting that he found some tv

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 01-04-2008 - 12:50am
LOL! Option 2 had me in stitches! (Edited for spelling because I'm AR)


Edited 1/4/2008 1:02 am ET by charite_99