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| Tue, 10-09-2007 - 1:56pm |
My boyfriend and I have broken up and I would like to get him back. He is having an issue with the trust I have for him. I have realized that it’s a problem and would like to change if he ever decides to give me that chance. These trust issues were instilled on me in the beginning of our relationship and have progressed since than. He finally became fed up and now states that he doesn’t think he wants to be in a relationship anymore. What can I do to help myself and possible show him that I’m worth that 2nd chance?

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Welcome to the board kimmie11479,
What steps are you taking for yourself, to work on the trust issue or your insecurities?
Welcome to the board kimmie11479,
You said you started having trust issues in the beginning of your relationship. Did he give you a reason not to trust him? Have you ever had trust issues before this?
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Well when we first met there was a girl that he was talking to in others ways than friendship. He did tell he that he was dating me and would like to keep it on a platonic level. She persisted to try and use the platonic friendship as an anchor for her own selfish reasons. I comfortable
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Kimmie,
He basically cheats emotionally on you and YOU think you have a problem?
He might seen like a creap but he is a great person. I have notice that he has a bit on an issue with attention but when I try to bring it up to deffend myself he ends up taking over the conversastion and I always end up feeling horrible. Even now I think that the only reason that he "doesn't think he wants to be in a relationship right now" is because he would like to persue the girl that came back from kuwait just to see if anything happens. It's eating me up inside and would like nothing more than to resolve both of our issues. I do know I was wrong to snoop in his things.
Do you go on vacation with a guy friend?
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