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| Fri, 07-27-2007 - 1:31pm |
okay so heres the issue~
to start off i was in a relationship with a guy for 4 yrs and broke up with him for another guy. my boyfriend now was in a one yr relationship where his xgf left him for his friend. so i actually met him through the x when they were going out. ive been over my bf's house every single day for the past 6 months but ive been dating him for only 3 months, we kinda both jumped into getting involved without a break from our x's. so my bf grew up a tough life his mom died whne he was 7 and his dad left him and all his gf's hes ever had cheated on him. he doesnt communicate well. and he talked about a month ago about saying i love u , he initiated it and we started saying it, now he wont say it anymore, he never ever introduces me as his gf, and he doesnt care when his friends hit on me he says do whatever u want. we still kiss and have sex and he invites me over every single night its like we practically live together but it just seems like he doesn t care. he used to get pissed because i never eever call him, and he recently asked me why i never come on to him and he has to do all the work, i agree im shy with everything, but last night his dorky ugly perverted friend who hits on everyone came over nand kept asking me to lift my shirt so my bf says do whatever u want i cant stop u from doing what u want, doesnt seme like he cares, usually bf's get pissed at that stuff, or whenever iget mad and leave he doesnt attempt to make me stay, he is affectionate and eveyrrhing but damn sometimes it seems like he doesnt care.....?
to start off i was in a relationship with a guy for 4 yrs and broke up with him for another guy. my boyfriend now was in a one yr relationship where his xgf left him for his friend. so i actually met him through the x when they were going out. ive been over my bf's house every single day for the past 6 months but ive been dating him for only 3 months, we kinda both jumped into getting involved without a break from our x's. so my bf grew up a tough life his mom died whne he was 7 and his dad left him and all his gf's hes ever had cheated on him. he doesnt communicate well. and he talked about a month ago about saying i love u , he initiated it and we started saying it, now he wont say it anymore, he never ever introduces me as his gf, and he doesnt care when his friends hit on me he says do whatever u want. we still kiss and have sex and he invites me over every single night its like we practically live together but it just seems like he doesn t care. he used to get pissed because i never eever call him, and he recently asked me why i never come on to him and he has to do all the work, i agree im shy with everything, but last night his dorky ugly perverted friend who hits on everyone came over nand kept asking me to lift my shirt so my bf says do whatever u want i cant stop u from doing what u want, doesnt seme like he cares, usually bf's get pissed at that stuff, or whenever iget mad and leave he doesnt attempt to make me stay, he is affectionate and eveyrrhing but damn sometimes it seems like he doesnt care.....?

Welcome to the board princess6407,
You need to have a talk with your bf even if you said he isn't very good at communicating. It isn't right for him to let him friend disrespect you right in front of him and for him to say nothing. You deserve to be treated better than that. Let him know how you would like to be treated and see if he is willing to work on making some changes.
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