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| Fri, 01-16-2004 - 3:06pm |
I need all the help I can get on this one. My girlfriend broke up with me last night, and I'm devestated. We have only been going out for three months, but never had a dissagreemant, or a fight. Everything was happy as can be. I always compliment her, and tell her she's beautifull. We loved seeing each other as often as we could (which meant once or twice during the week, and on the weekend).
She came over to my house last night, and said she didn't see the relationship going anywhere as of a couple of days ago when she saw a red flag in me. I have no idea what I may have done. She told me that up until two days ago she could see us going all the way.
I wrote her a letter telling her how much I cared for her, and that I would do anything possible to help mend what I may have done.I dropped it off with her roommate today, and hopefully she will have a chance to read it tonight.
Any help anybody can offer me would be greatly appreciated. I don't want to crowd her, but I still want her to know how much I care for her.
Thanks,
Chris

Do you think she could be scared of something I may have brought up from her past?
Do you think the letter was a good idea. I truely want her to know how much I care for her, and that I will be there for her.
Thanks,
Chris
It is sad because you are playing games, but I really believe that is how most people are. AFTER she falls for you, you can be yourself.
She is not the only girl in this world.. I hope this helped, even though it may not have been what you wanted to hear.
Unfortunatley, if she doesnt tell you whats broke, how can you fix it?
Sometimes we dont have the same goals, motivations, beleifs...whatever.Try not too take it personnaly.A red flag can mean anything- it coulda been her. If she isnt giving you the respoect of at least telling you what went wrong, I wouldnt bother fishing for it.
Take it as you will, and move one.I know it doesnt sound easy rightnow, but it will get better.