Am I crazy???

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2007
Am I crazy???
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Wed, 10-31-2007 - 6:01pm
Ok so maybe this is the stupidest thing ever, but I really hope I am sane. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs now. I am 21, he is 20, he is 7 months younger than me, and I swear it seems like he is sooooo much more immature. So, this is my problem. When he tells me he will call me, whether
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Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: nichole86
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 6:37pm
His maturity level and the fact that he doesn't call when he says he will are not necessarily connected although they overlap. He is *young* and wants to have fun and see you when it is convenient for him. IF this doesn't work for you and you think he is too immature for you then date someone older.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: nichole86
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 11:52pm

Welcome to the board nichole86,


No you are not crazy. You have an expection of him to honor his word (and respect you and the relationship enough to follow through) when he says he will call and he doesn't.


Girls mature earlier than guys do.

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Registered: 11-01-2007
In reply to: nichole86
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 9:46am

no you are not crazy.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: nichole86
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 11:26am

Welcome to the board glhdonkin,


Thanks for participating.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: nichole86
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 2:06pm

Playing games with him is not the answer nor is "giving him a dose of his own medicine".

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Registered: 10-31-2007
In reply to: nichole86
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 8:54pm

Thanks cl-itwinflame, you said it better than I could. That's just it, I think it is a mutual respect thing. I mean, it's not the end of the world if he doesn't call, but at the same time, why does he have to act like it doesn't

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