Am I the crazy one????
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Am I the crazy one????
| Thu, 09-18-2008 - 5:07pm |
I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and we live together.
| Thu, 09-18-2008 - 5:07pm |
I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and we live together.
"Am I being the crazy one and unreasonable?"
Not crazy, just gullible. You are this guy's life support system, that is what he wants from you. Drop this guy, he doesn't care for you, he wants the woman in his home country.
Next time don't move in with someone that you don't even know. Your relationship before this one must have been really bad for you to leave someone after 6 years for, again, someone that you didn't even know. Do you make all of your major life decisions as impulsively? If so, you need to look at changing this before you get yourself in a real bind someday.
All I can say is that there is too much drama going on for you - you should try a nice simple relationship where the guy is as devoted to you as you are to him.
if he cant respect you by not talking to her then you should leave him...you have been letting him walk all over you...you shouldnt have to be the one supporting you both...its hard and frustrating i know...you need to put your foot down if nothing happens...then be on your way to find someone that will treat you right...you deserve it! i hope everything works out for you...sorry you have to go through this.
Welcome to the board sabrina2482,
I hope you can take the good advice you've been given.
Of course it's no big deal to him, because if he admitted that it was, it would mean he was wrong and he'd have to stop doing what he's doing. He does NOT want to stop doing what he's doing.