Am I crazy for wanting a relationship that maybe an uphill battle.

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Registered: 01-23-2012
Am I crazy for wanting a relationship that maybe an uphill battle.
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Tue, 01-24-2012 - 8:25pm
I have an issue I met a guy two years ago online. We dated briefly and had sex. He has two children with two different women and both were bad relationships. So he wasnt as attentive as I liked so we decided to be friends. But then I would get jealous if he brought up other women and to me its hard to be just friends after the emotion of sex. So his main issue is he felt like in his other two relationships he gave up alot of himself to please the women. So I tend to get blamed and punished as he doesnt want to give too much of himself again. Am I crazy to want a relationship that maybe an uphill battle?? We can text when our work allows during the day, talk on the phone and have so much fun and laugh alot when were together. But should I give up now and stop wishing it will become something that works for the both of us? Or just break ties now??

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Registered: 12-22-2007

>>I didnt expect absolutely no one to support me wanting to make an effort.<<

Sammie, what positives do you see which you think we've missed?

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Registered: 01-25-2010

Hi Sammie:

chaika

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Registered: 05-20-2009

I have to agree with xxxs, and hope you can SEE what your life will be with this man.

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