Am I insecure?
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|Mon, 06-02-2003 - 4:32pm|
There's an attractive lady that attends our church, I can tell that the guy I'm dating finds her attractive. I've noticed he checks her out a few times during service. Quick glances. I think she is interested in him because of the smiles and looks she give him. It seems like my guy lights up like a light bulb when she walks into a room. He doesn't know that I've been observing this.
Even though he's dating me, I feel like he's going to dump me if there's a chance he can her. We have established a nice dating relationship, but not committed. I find myself extremely jealous of the lady, because she's a threat to my relationship.
When dating it's normal to find other people attractive. I do. At what point does your mate/date attraction to another concern you? Do you feel like you're going to be dumped if your mate/date is very attracted to someone in your inner circle and the attraction is mutual....For example, work, group, church, etc. Am I insecure or have every right to be concerned.