Am I just Crazy?
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Am I just Crazy?
| Sat, 06-30-2007 - 10:40pm |
About a year and a half ago I found my fiance writing emails to her exboyfriend. I conftronted her and she said he was just a friend, later I found her emailing the same guy and asked her to stop if she cared about me. Just recently I checked her internet history and saw that she had looked at her exboyfriends myspace page. Should i be worried? She thinks i'm crazy, and being jealous. what should i do?

I totally agree.
Christybisping, if they are emails discussing work, life and stuff in general, then yes, you are being crazy and jealous.
However, if they are flirty then you've got a good reason to be concerned.
Welcome to the board christybisping,
For a married woman, she's rather interested in this guy - ex or not. She would ok with you doing the same sort of thing?
I think you need to trust her. If there is no trust in the relationship, then there is no happiness. You should not be checking her e-mail or who she visits on her MySpace page. You should TRUST her enough to not have to. If you suspect cheating, confront her about it.
If you haven't gotten to the point that you can believe every word she says, you need to postpone the marriage until you can.