Am I just wrong?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
Am I just wrong?
2
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 10:49pm

Hi there,


I've been in a relationship with a man for a little over 8 yrs now (married for 1 1/2). 5 years ago, I caught my husband searching the internet for lesbian porn on Valentines day. At this point I was 8 1/2 months pregnant and feeling like every other super-prego. He denied it for a while and left me a letter admitting what he did and apologized. It hurt because of the dishonesty, and the timing. Valentines Day, common now. I figure that I'd been over it until recently when he admitted he was attracted to another female. One he's been friends with for a while. They do not hang out. Just texting to say "hey," with the occasional phone call.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 11:31pm

Hi bunnykisses_4_u,


No you aren't wrong.... my advice is exactly the same as before:


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlrelationsh&msg=29391.1&x=y





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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Sat, 09-15-2007 - 12:32pm
Regardless of your self-esteem, he is attracted to someone else. It is time to go to marriage counseling.