Am I Lying to Myself??
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Am I Lying to Myself??
| Sat, 02-09-2008 - 8:27pm |
I started chatting with a guy online a few months back.
| Sat, 02-09-2008 - 8:27pm |
I started chatting with a guy online a few months back.
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Hello,
I hate to tell ya this, but the only thing that you can do is confess what happened to your boyfriend and hope that he can forgive you. He may not wish to continue dating you now that this has happened with the other guy, so you have to be ready for that. And at the very least own up to what you have done. I know its hard and it will hurt. But time to just be brave and get it out there. After you have said your piece, up to your bf if he wants to take you back or not. If he doesn't take you back, then you shouldn't run to the other guy. Because if you do that, then he will likely be feeling bad too about taking you from another guy like that. So I suggest you give it some time, tell the other guy what has happened, but tell him that you need some time to think and sort things through. Depending on rather you want to be with him or not after what has happened. Once you figure out what is right for you then commit to it and don't look back. That is the only advice I can give you on this subject.
Cursed_Romantic
Cursed_Romantic
There is no way you can maintain this friendship and your relationship.
The real question here is why did you start this flirtation at all? Is something missing in your basic relationship? Usually when two people are happy, there is not the need to reach out to someone else? It seems as if you are exploring another relationship because you may have needs that are not being fulfilled.
It's important to be clear and complete with one relationship before starting the next. See what's really going on in your present relationship. Talk about the relationship with your boyfriend and see if you're both happy and if it's going in the direction you want. You don't have to tell him about this other guy, but you do have to be honest with yourself about what you truly want in life and if you're getting it where you are.
Best wishes
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