If you allow him to control you now, he is going to expect to do the same once you are married. I would suggest premartial counseling. Whoever is going to marry you should be able to provide it. It things don't change, I would at the very least postpone the wedding.
You say that initially he didn't want to get married. Are you actually sure he does now? It sounds to me like maybe he's changed his mind and is acting passive aggressive about it in the hopes that you'll break things off. That way he's not the bad guy for leaving you at the altar since it would have been your decision.
Whether he's not wanting to get married, or if he simply really is as controlling as he's sounding, getting married in 32 days is going to be a disaster. You may lose some money if you cancel the wedding, but it's much less than you'd lose if you go ahead and end up divorced very quickly.
If you are going through with it, then at the least you should do some in-depth premarital counseling to talk through these issues.
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Welcome to the board redsassy30,
If you allow him to control you now, he is going to expect to do the same once you are married. I would suggest premartial counseling. Whoever is going to marry you should be able to provide it. It things don't change, I would at the very least postpone the wedding.
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Welcome to the board redsassy30,
::His latest thing is that he thinks I should ask him instead of tell him the things I'm doing or where I'm going.
'I've spoken to my mom about this at great lengths to get her opinion since she has been married for 20 some years.
Is he being controling or is he asking you to let go of your parents a little? He might be
You say that initially he didn't want to get married. Are you actually sure he does now? It sounds to me like maybe he's changed his mind and is acting passive aggressive about it in the hopes that you'll break things off. That way he's not the bad guy for leaving you at the altar since it would have been your decision.
Whether he's not wanting to get married, or if he simply really is as controlling as he's sounding, getting married in 32 days is going to be a disaster. You may lose some money if you cancel the wedding, but it's much less than you'd lose if you go ahead and end up divorced very quickly.
If you are going through with it, then at the least you should do some in-depth premarital counseling to talk through these issues.
Is your post in red because you are really mad?
Hi,
I don't see any 'deleted' posts.
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