Am i not being understandable
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Am i not being understandable
| Thu, 06-17-2004 - 9:03pm |
ok i will try to make this as short as possible. Three days ago me and my boyfriend decided to get married . We both were very happy we planned to get married on september 25 this year and so we just had to talk to our parents about it i told my mom and she was happy but my boyfriend still needed to talk to my dad about our plans my boyfriend was alil scared to talk to my dad because my dad could be sucha hard person to talk to. he told his parents and his mom didnt agree and told him that he was too young to marry and that he didnt need to marry right now and so that made everything more hard for me and him to get married. so i was upset the whole night becuase i thought that we wernt going to get married no more but the next morning my mom and i start planing things out like that ceromony and the dance and she told me that she would take care of my dad so my dad was no problem no more. when my boyfriend came over for breakfast i told him how happy i was because my dad was taken care of and now i knew that we were going to be able to marry and how happy i was . i was practicly in the clouds and i told him if he got me down that i would kick his butt . he didnt say anything and just made plans with me and we talked about who we were going to invite. so i ask him when hes going to tell my dad and he says "umm i dont think im ready". and thats when i told him to go home. i felt like crying for the reason that i felt like an idiot because i was planing like crazy and i was soo excited just for him to bring me down like that and tell me no. why couldnt he tell me sooner. i asked him why and he just said sorry . i think that his mom was the one that got him to think like that becuase he is sort of a mommy boy. i just dont know if im being understanding. so i told him that i needed some time to think straigh and he needed time to think of why hes not ready so were having a 2 day break . but was it nesessary or no? help me people help me understand him!

If you were meant to be together then continue dating and reassess at another time.