Am i the only one who thinks this

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2006
Am i the only one who thinks this
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Sat, 06-23-2007 - 12:02am
Am I the only one in this world that constantly thinks that their significant other should be with someone else. Like you know the perfect person they should be with. i sorta know this girl and i am constantly thinking that my SO should be with her rather than me because they have more in common. that if he would ever meet her he would definitely fall for her. What do you think?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2005
Sat, 06-23-2007 - 2:22am
Wow - I think everyone experiences a certain amount of insecurity in their life. I don't know if this attitude stems from feeling like he could do better than you or your desire to be rid of him so you mentally fix him up to know he's okay. You need to seriously examine where this comes from because it isn't a healthy component to your relationship.
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Registered: 06-23-2007
Sat, 06-23-2007 - 1:07pm
honey..you need to realize that he is with you for a reason. Out of all the girls that are out there he chose to be with you. Don't doubt yourself, believe in yourself. B/c you cannot expect someone to love you if you are doubting yourself all the time. this could cause some issues in the relationship like jeleous. Take a breath, stop and think about why you feel this way, and then evaluate what causes these thoughts. good luck!