Am I over reacting?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Am I over reacting?
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Tue, 06-22-2004 - 5:26am
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have a great relationship, and I love him very much. But yesterday I came home from work and saw that he had looked up a whole bunch of porn on my computer...and I was heart broken. I have been through several tragedies in my life back to back over the past 6 months, and it has taken a major told on me mentally...so I admit...our sex life isn't what it used to be. I didn't get mad at him exactly...but I was upset and I told him I was dissapointed that he puts the time and effort into surfing the web for porn, and not our sex life. I know its a healthy thing yada yada..but I can't seem to get pat it. Am I over reacting? What should I do? Help!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2003
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 10:08am
"I know its a healthy thing..."

What is a healthy thing?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 12:02pm
well everyone always says that men looking at porn is a "healthy thing".
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2003
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 12:41pm
If you think that viewing porn is healthy, hop over to the "Families Damaged by Pornography" board here at iVillage.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 4:17pm
I didn't say *I* thought it was healthy...I said people are always telling me it is.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2003
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 4:24pm
Hang out with better, more informed people.