Am I overanlyzing ?

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Registered: 08-26-2004
Am I overanlyzing ?
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Thu, 08-26-2004 - 11:27pm
My husband and I are currently separated. He was the one that moved out. He has said that he wants to come back and go to counseling to work things out. Last week I asked him if this was true, why wasn't he wearing his wedding ring. He said that he had taken it off when he first moved out and just hadn't put it back on. I told him that it meant something to me that he wasn't wearing it. I saw him today and he still wasn't wearing it. He knows how I feel about it. Am I overreacting? Should I take this as a sign?

Thanks,

Jennifer
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Registered: 09-26-2003
Fri, 08-27-2004 - 8:26am

I wouldnt take it as a sign he has changed his mind, but a sign that he is insensitive yo your wishes and what the ring stands for in a marriage. Be clear t him and stress the inmportance about how much it means to you that he wears that piece of jewelry...if he still chooses to ignore your feelings, then its up to you on how you handle this situation.


Best wishes,