Am I overdoing it?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2005
Am I overdoing it?
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Sat, 01-14-2012 - 5:00pm

I met someone visiting at work recently and spent some time there as part of a team. When we parted, he gave me a nice, personal (but respectful) compliment. I

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Sat, 01-14-2012 - 11:48pm

Feel Cheap?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 01-15-2012 - 12:31pm

I can't imagine why you would think the man would think you have a crush on him if all you did was ask for his email--you didn't even ask him to go out for a drink or anything.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2005
Sun, 01-15-2012 - 1:41pm

Thanks, both of you, for answering. Actually, I was flattered by the compliment. I would like him to respond just once, for one more warm feeling in my heart, nothing else, I'm very, very, very clear about that. I'm very practical.

This act of mine makes me worry that I've appeared needy to extend the connection.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 01-16-2012 - 11:57am

The operative word in self-esteem is SELF.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Mon, 01-16-2012 - 5:16pm

Music has some great points.