Am I overreacting?
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|Thu, 09-13-2012 - 10:51am|
I need some advice. I’ve been in an exclusive relationship with my BF for a year now. We’ve had conflicts lately and I don’t know if I am being overly demanding or not. This weekend he is going away camping with his friends for 3 days, 4 nights. That is not the issue. The issue is the last night he had to spend with me before going away, he spent it working on his house and packing. I was expecting him to want to be with me. He came to my house to get some things and said he would be back for dinner. 1.5 hours later, I called him and asked when he was coming over for dinner and he said he will be there in 10 minutes. Well, it turned into 30 minutes. I went ahead and started eating as it was now almost 8 pm. He came zooming in and served himself and said he had some people helping him and he couldn’t leave. I understood. It was when dinner was over and he announced he was going back to his house to pack more that I got upset with him. I said “really, you come to dinner and leave when you are going away the next day???” He said I was controlling and demanding. Now, am I over reacting here?
Some good advice would be welcome
Thanks and have a great day,