am i overreacting?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2003
am i overreacting?
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Tue, 07-13-2004 - 8:16am
I've been seeing this guy for just about two months...we get along great and we've been progressing slowly, but steadily. We've never established a boyfriend/girlfriend status, we've just 'been dating' (exclusively as far as I can tell). Over the past week, we've spent a lot of time together, I have even met his mother (as well as other family members). Seemingly, everything was good. I got a call from him on Saturday night, when I said that I was out with a girl friend, he appeared to be a little annoyed. I wasn't sure if it was just me over analyzing, or if he was truly mad that I was out. Sunday morning I called to see if we could get together, he said he'd call back after he was done with what he was doing....no calls. I did call again on Sunday to see if I could catch him, but I only got voicemail. I'm so upset and confused by this. The silence is killing me and moreso, I have no ideas on what is going on in his head. I'm dying to call again, but I'm trying not to. I need advice! Help...please!
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Tue, 07-13-2004 - 2:09pm
You can't make him talk, so I think it's good that you don't call and let him call you, if and when he's ready. Sorry you have to go through this.


Carrie