Am I overreacting?
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Am I overreacting?
| Mon, 04-21-2008 - 3:26pm |
Hi,
I need unbiased advice about what my relationship!
| Mon, 04-21-2008 - 3:26pm |
Hi,
I need unbiased advice about what my relationship!
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if this was just an isolated incident, i'd say don't worry about and let go have fun one last time before the baby comes, however from everything you stated in your post, bike week is just one of many things, and he is going to do what he wants to do when it comes to any issue in your relationship and i think i would seriously consider re-evaluating your options when it comes to raising a baby
YES - he needs to step up and show that he is responsible and accountable for his actions.
What fictional stories is it that you are referring to?
Your feelings are understandable. No one wants to think of their fiancee partying with half naked women. Also, the fact that he is disregarding your feelings is not good. However, before you just "leave" him while he's gone, stop a moment and realize that you are having a child together. It's very important to have support of all kinds during this period. Rather than just leaving, perhaps you can make a plan to go to see a couple's counsellor with him? Would he be open to that? He needs to learn tools of relationship building, how to listen, be considerate, and understand a way to fulfill both his needs and yours. Do your best to get him to understand how important it will be to all three of you for him to join you for some counselling and relattionship education.
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While all people are capable of doing horrible things to us, the person who you choose to be in a loving relationship with should encourage you to have some greater faith in him.
He doesnt sound like he is ready or willing to become mature enough for your liking.
Even if drugs, drinking, and women were not in the picture, it is NOT acceptable for a man who is about to be a father and NOT WORKING take what little family funds there are and blow them on a bike week vacation.
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