Am I overreacting?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Am I overreacting?
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Mon, 04-21-2008 - 3:26pm

Hi,


I need unbiased advice about what my relationship!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2007
Wed, 04-23-2008 - 1:13am

I'm really sorry you are going through this.


I have to agree that just because he has a baby on the way that does not mean he will step up and become a responsible man and daddy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 04-23-2008 - 8:50am
I must admit that even though I hoped I would be told I was thinking clearly and making the right decision when I began this post - it's very overwhelming for everyone to agree that it is time for me to go.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2004
Wed, 04-23-2008 - 11:35am

You have such different values than this man - you really should move on - no matter how painful, you will be much happier sharing your life with someone who has the same values as you do.


I have been a single mother (and still am, though happy in a relationship) so I understand how you feel - but alone and happy and living within your standards is much better than being at the mercy of a man that does not share your vision of a great life and how to achieve it.


Best wishes,


Coolas

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