Am I overreacting?
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| Thu, 11-29-2007 - 12:32pm |
Well.. My bf and I have been together for about 3 weeks.. But we have a past.. We dated like 6 years ago and were together for about 5 months.. Broke up because (at 16- we're the same age) we were talking about getting married, and settling down.. He wasn't ready for that..
We recently got back together, and things have been PERFECT! I've never been this happy before, and I finally feel like I've got my soul-mate back.. Up until about 2 days ago everything was fine.. He's been living with me since we got back together, and we haven't had a single fight or arguement about anything.. We just seem to mesh really well together.. Have the same goals, and future plans..
He's had a really bad couple of days, and I feel like he's just distancing himself away from me.. I've never really seen him like this before.. Bottling things inside, and not talking to me.. He's usually really happy, and generally always in a good mood.. So to see him kind of sulking around is very un-nerving..
As to the subject, I think that I'm just overreacting to his bad mood, but I can't help but think that something else is going on.. I tried to talk to him about it last night,and he Just had a really bad day! He says that he's not mad at me at all, but this morning before he left for work, he just got up and got dressed kissed me on the cheek and left.. Didn't even say "I love you"... I haven't heard from him at all... Usually he'll text me or something.. But nothing..
Should I just wait it out and see what happens, try to talk to him again? I want to do something for him to bring the smile back.. But what? I'm just driving myself crazy wondering what I can do to put him back in a better mood, and bring my boyfriend back! Any suggestions??

Hi fieryfairy2006,
Here's your old posts because if I'm reading this correctly you just broke up with a different guy recently, right?
Not sure what to do...
I did what I thought I had to do...
Update.. Still not sure.. Help!
Don't know what to do
Quest.. Any advice helpful
Am I overreacting?
So I will skip over the whole, are you sure you are ready to be in another relationship and stick with this post....
::I'm just driving myself crazy wondering what I can do to put him back in a better mood, and bring my boyfriend back! Any suggestions??
As nicely as possible, it's not your job to put him in a good mood. That comes from within him.
Welcome back to the board fieryfairy2006,
You are moving way too quickly in this relationship. You may have had a past together but that past was six years ago and only for 5 months. Both of you have changed a lot in that six years. You aren't the same people that you were then. The fact of the matter is that you don't really know each other that well. You may think you do, but you really don't.
It may be for the best to think about living apart for
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