am i the problem?
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am i the problem?
| Fri, 03-14-2008 - 2:50pm |
I am 20 years old, and getting married VERY soon. I have been in a relationship with the most amazing guy for 3 1/2 years, and am so excited about the rest of our lives together, but am worried that I am driving our relationship into the ground. Its not like me to do a web posting, but i don't wanna talk to my family or well not really many trustworthy friends because I don't want anyone to think we are having problems, and I don't get anywhere but in an argument with my fiance, so I think that I have some kind of a probem with myself, hopefully someone can help.

Welcome to the board futurebride27,
Well, I'm wondering how much of his comments are made on purpose to make you feel bad and if he's pushing you away?
It's normal for you to want to find a way to connect with him about his work, etc. to feel close, to feel a part of his life.
Welcome to the board futurebride27,
I hate to say this, but I think you should postpone the wedding until you two can work on your problems You are not the cause of them. It is normal to ask him about his day and to ask him opinions on things. At the very least, I would consider premarital counseling.
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