Am I reading into things too much??
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Am I reading into things too much??
| Sat, 02-28-2004 - 4:24am |
The past 2 weeks, I have felt that my boyfriend and I haven't been spending much time together. We talked about it some, fought of about it some as well. We had pretty much both 'gotten over all the fighting' early this week. My boyfriend has always been a very sexual person which I've gotten used to. Well we hadn't had sex for a couple of days, so I initiated on Tuesday, but he said he was tired so I said we would just wait til Wednesday. I initiated Wednesday, and again it didn't happen. This is pretty unusual for him, so it upset me, but I just kinda brushed it off assuming he was real tired again. Well my boyfriend went out of town Thursday because of work (2 hours away). When he told me on Wednesday, I said I would come down on Saturday and he said that he didn't know if we was going to have to work on Saturday or Sunday and I said that it would be fine because I could catch up with some friends that I hadn't seen for a while. Well I called him today and he was hanging out with his friends, and I told him that I was going to lunch with some friends tomorrow (Saturday) and that I would drive after that. His response was 'well, we're going to talk about that later'. Well he went out with friends tonight and called me a little while ago (4am) and said that a guy down there was having a big party on Sat night, and that he wanted to go and that this guy was buying $500 worth of hard liquor so he wasn't going to be driving back home that night. So of course I said 'and you don't want me to go?' and he said 'no. I want to be with my friends'. He said that if I went, I wouldn't have fun and would want to go home at like midnight. I feel like i'm going absolutely crazy. The fact that he told me he wasn't going home that night has my head spinning.. and if it was true about the party, why couldn't he tell me when his friends were around him? Or did he just know it would lead to a fight? I'm so upset right now! Please help.

I don't know if you're reading too much into it but if this is just a one time occurence, I'd forget about it.