Am I too Critical?
Find a Conversation
Am I too Critical?
| Tue, 01-27-2004 - 6:41pm |
My husband and I have been married for 4 years. I think his behavior is becoming more and more bizarre. He becomes obsessed with things were that is all he will talk about for weeks. When he does something he does it the exact same way everytime. He also seems to have "rules" about everything. For example, he absolutely refuses to ride in a car if he is not the driver.
This behavior is driving me crazy. I have asked him if he thinks he has a problem and he doesn't think he does. Am I being too critical of him?
This behavior is driving me crazy. I have asked him if he thinks he has a problem and he doesn't think he does. Am I being too critical of him?

Wicked
has anything happened recently that would make him in more need of "control"?Has he ever sought medical attention for what seems to be a compulsive - obsessive disorder? Thing is, before he gets help, he needs to admit and beleive that he actaully has a problem, if indeed, he does have one.
I would ask him in a nonconfrotational way to see a doctor because you are worried about him and want to ensure that hes around to be with you for awhile.Putting it to him that this would actually help you ,if he went to see a professionnal makes this less about him possibly having an ailment and more about protrecting you.
Good luck,
Good luck....