Am I wasting my time

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2007
Am I wasting my time
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Fri, 03-28-2008 - 3:01pm

I had an A about a year and a half ago that i confessed about.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 03-28-2008 - 3:25pm

Welcome to the board waiting-2-b-his-wife,.


Most couples cannot heal betrayal and rebuild trust without going to counseling and BOTH people participating in the rebuilding.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 03-28-2008 - 5:55pm

Welcome to the board waiting-2-b-his-wife,


Until he is willing to work on dealing with the pain he is feeling from the affair, but don't see your relationship working out. Of course at this point he refuses to even acknowledge that you are in a relationship. Even his current attitude I don't this is relationship ending up where you want it to.


Sorry.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2008
Fri, 03-28-2008 - 8:31pm

It doesn't sound like you had much of a relationship before you both decided to cheat, if he did in fact do so.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2007
Sat, 03-29-2008 - 3:42pm
A lot of men have a hard time coming back from cheating. He told you the truth of it, you don't marry them once they've cheated. He may be one of those men that has a hard time. I don't understand why he doesn't make a complete break from you. But he didn't sound like a prize before your A either.