Am I wasting my time?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2004
Am I wasting my time?
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Sun, 08-08-2004 - 3:05pm
Hello, I really need someones help. I met this guy 3 months ago through a mutual friend and ever since we talk on the phone everyday and see each other at least 2 times a week. I know I have feelings for him more than friends but he tells me that he wants to be alone for the rest of his life so he can do the things he wants to do. But this past week something has changed with him. One night we went out and when I was leaving he gave me a hug and then we left, but he called me right away and told me that he wanted to kiss me. I asked him why he didn't. He told me that he did not kiss me because I was seeing another guy. I explained to him that I was not seeing anybody. He believed me. Later on when we talked again, he told me that he did not know what he wanted out of life for a relationship because he was scared to hurt someone. Now he is changing his words about relationships. What do I do??? Please Help Me!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2003
Sun, 08-08-2004 - 3:18pm
If you really like this guy he may just need more time. Some men are just like that. He seems like the type that likes to be alone but also likes your company and conversation. Maybe you need to make the first physical move. He may just be to shy to do it. Besides you never learn in life if you don't take chances, especially in a relationship.