Am I wrong?
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| Wed, 10-13-2004 - 2:05pm |
First of all, I'm 9 weeks pregnant, and my husband has a job where he's gone all of the time. Most of the time his trips are voluntary, since it's extra training for him. I already knew he'd be gone for the first 3 months of next year, and then I find out he's going to be gone the first two weeks of December. I'm okay with this part because this was already planned before I got pregnant. It's not fair for him to have to change his plans.
But today he came home and told me he's going away for a few weeks in November. This trip was totally up for him decide, and he told them he'd go before consulting me. Now he'll be gone every month until the baby is born. Part of me feels like he's doing this so he won't have to be around, although I know it's not true. He told me he'd cancel it, but I'm still upset that he didn't consider asking me first.
What should I do??? I really need an outside perspective and fast!
| Wed, 10-13-2004 - 2:27pm |

